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From the very first time I talked to Trisha, I knew I had found someone special. She was the only doula I called that actually answered the phone when I called (all the others had to call me back). That responsiveness impressed me from the start and she never waivered from that kind of commitment throughout my whole pregnancy and beyond. More than that though Trisha was kind and an empathetic listener on the phone. I felt instantly calmed by her demeanor and her aura of capability. She invests everything she has into her clients. She is honest, sweet, and overall wonderful. If you have come across her name you are truly fortunate- you will not find a better doula.
The classes we took with her were terrific because she went through the material at a pace and in a style uniquely tailored to us. We were never bored or put out by having a birthing class, rather it was more like a meeting between friends in which we happened to get a lot of information! She is very flexible and allowed us to have the classes on different days and times when we could fit them in. My husband could never have attended all the classes with me but for that since he works very demanding hours. Trisha was always very prepared and gave us lots of workbooks and handouts that we could refer to later. Of course if we couldn't find something we could call or email her any time. I once got an email back from her at 3am!
My goal was to birth naturally and I truly couldn't have done it without Trisha. My labor started fast and furious with contractions every three minutes apart. Trisha was the first phone call I made. She kept me calm through early labor despite my frequent contractions. She arrived at the hospital before we got there. She called us to gauge timing and went to labor and delivery to advise them of our imminent arrival and then came to meet us in the parking lot. She stayed by my side the entire labor. She massaged, hugged, held my hair, and numerous other things for 12 long hours without one word of complaint. She was completely respectful of my wishes. She listened to me when I talked about the epidural when I didn't think I could do it anymore and didn't judge and then was equally nonjudgmental when the anesthesiologist got there and I sent him away. She didn't judge one bit of my weaknesses, screams, curse, stubbornness to change position, or the various other things women are prone to in labor. She had a million suggestions for things I could try and she knew when I was ready to listen to them. She never pushed me but let me make my own way while holding my hand and staying with me through every difficult step. Labor was worse than I imagined but Trisha was better! She even made me laugh when I was at a 9.5. I am so very grateful Trisha was there and any woman would be incredibly lucky to have her attend their birth.
I would recommend Trisha wholeheartedly. There is simply no better investment that you could make.
Gemma M.
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